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How to get my boyfriend in the mood..?

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Question - (13 February 2005) 25 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2008)
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I can't seem to get my boyfriend horny. I think I'm doing it wrong and I just wanted some tips on how to get him horny.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008):

what i do to get my boyfriend horny is turn off all the lights and sit him on the bed, and put on something skanky, that will really turn him on. then i just start dry humping him and grind on him, then kiss him and lick his neck&ear and then start moaning, it will really get him hard :]

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

okay so when i want to turn on my boyfriend all i have todo is sit on his of course sit on top of his thing and start looking into his eyes and gently kiss his neck but very gently to intensify the moment...once he kisses you back dry hump his very slowly and that just definintly turns him on nd u noe whats next...=]]]]]

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008):

i usually just sit on him so i am positioned on his dick and i move around in a horny way.

When he says something dirty and your horny moan a little and he will be completely horny after he hears you make noises.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

just cuddle up with him in bed and start to slow kiss~ then whisper in his ear "i want it" and he'll get the hint :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008):

To get my boyfriend in the mood, I sneak into his room when we r all alone and while he is lying on his bed, i take off my shirt and pants so im only wearing a bra and underwear. THen climb under the covers and cuddle and kiss.

Press ur body up against his, especially press ur vagins area near his penis. He' ll love it!!!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008):

to get my boy friend in the mood i first start by french kissing then licking his neck, then next i grab his hand and put only one hand on my ass and make eye contact with him and bite my lip then..

he gets the clue

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008):

well ask him if u can try and get him in the mood and if u cant well then hes not rready but u can try wearing barley nothing and make out with him

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007):

french kiss him slowly wile ur playing with his hair...kiss his neck, then slowly move down to his chest.. keep kissing and liking him al arund, he would love it!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007):

what me and my boyfriend does is when he comes over we have all our clothes on then i start giving him soft kisses and gradually make it intense and if he's still in the mood then go under his pants and start rubbing his penis or tease it then that will get him really turned on if this doesnt work then wear a skanky outfit and slowly (while standing up) strip in front of him and he'll obvisouly get turned on :]

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007):

When i was with my boyfriend in his car a couple weeks ago i kept asking him about sex. Telling him i wanted him to be my first. Then i showed him my stomach.. And when he seen my stomach he just had to touch it. Then when he new i wanted it as much as him he ended up fingering me. Of course here comes the boner. But of course if was fun. I loved every minute of it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007):

grab him one day and pin him up against a wall. lick his neck and press ur body against him. he'll get way turned on

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007):

Well, what I do to my boyfriend is rub my face and butt against his thing. If that doesn't work, I press my boobs in his face!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007):

when hes laying on his back..sit on his stomach and lean back against his penis.. bend down and seductivly lick his neck it will def. turn him on

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007):

well what gets my boyfriend turned on is when we kiss standing up, i put my pubic area on his dick, and like dry hump... he loves it!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2007):

well what i do to my boyfriend to get him horny is i touch his penis..(obviously his boxers are on) and when youre doing that look at him in the eyes and bite your lips.that will totaly work.another thing you can do is lick his neck.i promise you he'll get really turned on by that. :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007):

just cuddle, rub his thigh, nibble on the top of his ear nd keep getting closer nd that woill sure get him turned on

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007):

ok i have the same problem we talk and make out but never really do it. just spend a little time away and then he will go crazy for some goodies o yea plus wear some victoria secret bras that show a little bit toooo much

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007):

ok, so the way i really get my boyfriend in the mood is we kinda dont' like make out agressively for a long time

he'll ask for akiss and i'll deny him his rights to the kiss

then like have him over sometime and get him in your bed just watching a movie or something and start kissing him

hold his hands and then take his hands and put them on your body. this tells him you do want him to be touching you adn that hes not being disrespectful. straddle him, kiss his neck, maybe once while straddlin ghim sitt up and like pull back you hair and arch your body a lot and stretch it out. he'll haev nothing else to look at but your elongated body. which he will find extremely hot

and he mgith masturbate a lot.. that doesn't help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007):

Try rubbing against his thing.and putting your boobs in his face.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2006):

nibble on his ear look stright in his eyes and when he sees u than put a cheeky smile on and move your eyes to the side and hug him and put ur body so u can feel is dick he wll love it

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A reader, keisha, writes (2 March 2005):

You can kiss him all over and nibble on his ear and when you do that, you can also blow on his ear and whisper stuff in there. Just let him know you want him!!!

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A reader, Kelli, writes (1 March 2005):

To get a guy in the mood can be tricky. Usually when your alone it is more likley he'll get turned on easier, or when your out in public whisper a dirty thought or dream in his ear(even if its not true) and later act it out. Take him in a sexy store and ask him to pick out an outfit for you...later, try it on for him. If watching a movie ot just sitting around talking start to kiss him lightly, playing "hard to get" a little, the become more intense as time progresses. Make sure you dont smile, letting him know your serious about what you have to offer. Stroke yourself against him or bite your lip (he'll go crazy)!!!!!Feel on him a little and play with his tongue using yours. Words dont usually turn a guy on as much as touching or feeling does....REMEMBER....ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!!!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2005):

He may be a bit shy. He may not realise that you actually want to be close.

Maybe ask him if he remembers a previous 'horny' event. 'Do you remember how you hand slid over my...' whatever, it is just an excuse to talk a bit 'dirty', do this in the right setting, in the right tone, being right there beside him and he won't be able to keep his hands off you.

Get the idea into his head. Be suggestive and play 'hard(ish) to get' and he will strain a muscle!

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A reader, Teema, writes (14 February 2005):

I can only say be yourself, don't try so hard

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2005):

PLan a special romantic candel-lit surprise meal for just the two of you, have roses, his favourite food, romantic peaceful music and wear a skimpy sexy short dress, make sure your all beautified and gorg and i am sure that will be an offer he cant turn down!

after dinner talk and give him kisses and gradually take it to whatever level you want and if he dosent want to go any further simply accept it and talk to him about it, ask him why he is being like that but i am sure he will be happy with the idea after you have gone to lots of trouble with the dinner!

Try it and you will be surprised!

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