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How to deal with jealousy

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Article - (1 March 2011) 0 Comments - (Newest, )
A female Ireland age 26-29, WinnieThePoohRocks! writes:

is someone eating away at you just because they're jealous of one of your qualities, or you're looks, or maybe an item of clothing you have but they CAN'T have? well here's the simple how to guide to deal with these pathetic low lifes!

sometimes the jealous person will work in a weird way for example: trying to be your best friend sucking up to you, stuck to you like glue! - this is to get into your head, what's in your makeup bag? you're top secrets to score the perfect goal in soccer ? what do you read before you go to sleeep? what colour is your underwear? YES - they can be that obsessive! - thing is not to allow them get that close, they may blackmail you and trick you into thinking there a good person . NO they're not , they're pathetic , stick with your mates who have always being there with you through everything .

Often they will try and put you down infront of People, example: the new boy/girl, your boyfriend/girlfriend, a teacher, maybe even your friends! - you may have a nasty spot that might need poppin , or that has burst unoticedly , and they may shout it out in front of everyone, and the way for you to react is to say: 'ya i know', or 'i don't care' or even sarcacm ' COOOL ' .. this will burn there insides to think you don't care (even though it might be bugging you) .. and if your around someone you care about, they will still love you and realise how much of a pathetic person the jealous-one is ! and if they start laughing , they're not worth it!

Maybe the jealous-person is making up rumours about you - best tip for this is ignore! as long as you , your close mates , and family know it's not true what do you care? you must be intresting if there talking about you! or the other option is confrontation - walk right up to that little jealous worm who started the stupid rumour and ask WHY? ' why would you do something as pathetic as that? ' , embarass them! and just walk away with a comment like 'get a life ' or , your pathetic!

hope i helped! and remember take all this as a compliment , you must be brilliant if your being talked about or people being jealous of you !! and remember DO NOT BE AFRAID .

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