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How to break addiction to abusive boyfriend

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Question - (25 January 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, puppo writes:

Dear friends,

Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationhip for almost 2 years.He was nice to me for the first year but he used to spend very days and days with his friends not bothering to know how I am. since last few months he has started shouting on me for little things, beating me up and abusing me and my family whn he is angry at me. He apologised a few times but he repeats it again and agian time he started abusing me agian over a simple argument and cursing me and my family. I told him I cant stand him anymore after that he never called me up agian its been 3 days and I have told my family I am not going bak to him I dint know whether I am doing a right thing or not I do love him and miss him but his behavior is too bad.

Plz help

thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008):

Run like hell and keep running, do not let him back into your life, You deserve better so stop putting up with this. Why should your family have to put up with this also. You are well rid so keep it that way. Why does anyone want to be with someone who treats them so badly. And as for the hitting, you should of reported him to the police the first time that he did it. Please do not go back.

take care

xx

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (26 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntyou are doing the right thing.

Don't contact him or speak to him.

This Pathetic excuse for a human being is scum of the worst kind.

Leaving him is the greatest point in your life.

and i'm Proud of you.

I know so many who say "oh but i love my bf.. and he's always sorry and feels bad after he's done it"...

Don't be a Victim.

You've done the right thing.

Don't ever go back to him. and don't you dare date another guy who does the same.

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