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13-15,
anonymous
writes:first things first, i know that i'm under the age of concent i dont need anyone to tell me thankyou. that isnt my problem and i would appriciate it if people would lay off the "illeagal" stuff.i'm ready to have sex, and so is my boyfriend. but i'm totally ashamed of my body. i dont think i'm fat or anything its just that i hate being naked. not bottom naked becasue obviously u cant have sex without being bottom naked but top naked - i hate it. but my boyfriend says he only has sex completely naked. i really want to have sex with him but i can't bear being naked. is there anything i can do to make myself more comfatable with my body.thankyou Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): if you WERE ready... you wouldn't be ashamed of showing off your body! the fact that you are naked and the sight of you naked will probably turn your bf on - specially if you're both new to sex - but again: you're not ready!!
if you do go further with it though: WEAR A CONDOM!
best of luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): hi
I remember my first experience was with an older man and I was in my early teens. I was totally embarassed about showing my body also due to my slowly developed breasts. I didn't want him to see anything of me without clothes. But, I took it slow and got used to being close physically to someone because he took me for who I am and I slowly adjust and feel proud of my image. So for you, I absolutely understand the pressure, but take it slow. If your boyfriend really loves you then he should be ok with your body regardless. I think all naked bodies are beautiful when they have the confidence in them. It does show through when you make love to that special someone. It's not sex, it's love. And love should be relaxed, accepted, and fun. When a man is turned on, he sure won't mind anything else than to satisfy his hunger of you. When the sex is good, nothing else matters, not even what your body looks like, it's how good you both feel that's most important. I hope that helps.
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