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writes:Hello .... My question is how do you attract a man who is not involved in a relationship? And how do you let one you like but is involved go? We haven't slept together but we've kissed ... I don't want to be the other girl! He keeps approaching me and I try so hard to push him away but I like him. It is just getting harder and harder to push him away .... I know it is wrong to be with someone that's in a relationship but how do you stop the feelings ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): i would just like to say,i have been there before for 3 years and belive me its no fun being the other woman.the hurt the pain, the let downs all the time when he couldn,t make it to see u.but i blame myself for letting him into my life,this was 2 years ago and when i look back now, i wish i never met him.i will never ever go out with a man that is married ever again.so please save urself from all the pain and upset,once a cheat always a cheat.good look x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): block all contact with him, phone number, msn, email, facebook, e.t.c ,or just try not to check those things for messages too much, go out with your friends, and, when you feel ready, try to meet some new single guys. also, keep yourself busy with your job, hobbies, e.t.c. these kind of feelings do heal over time, but you must try to keep yourself busy and enjoy your life as much as you can. remember , life is too short to waste being unhappy, and pining for someone who isnt available. and, put yourself in his girflriend's shoes. you wouldnt like it if it was the other way around, and he was your boyfriend, and someone else kissed him, would you ?. i know how hurtful it is to like someone who is already in a relationship, but believe me, you will get through this.
good luck, and please let us know how you get on.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 You might not stop the feeling but you can avoid doing something that will surely cause harm to someone. Most probably, you.
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