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How to achieve multiple orgasms?

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Question - (3 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *uperstitionainttheway writes:

hi, i dont want to sound nieve, wierd or discomfort anyone but could someone please shed me some light on multiple orgasims? if so, how are they achieved.

me and my gf have been very sexually active in the past 18 months however, we are unclear on this.

also, one of my friends said that his gf 'squirts' =/ and he said its a sign of her enjoying it. i dont think my gf's orgasims have ever resembled a 'squirt'...

am i doing somemthing wrong?

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A female reader, NatreeRose United States +, writes (20 July 2010):

NatreeRose agony auntI don't know about multiple orgasms, but any girl can squirt. For some reason guys think if their girl "squirts" it means she is enjoying it more than when she doesn't. NOT true! "squirting" is the same as male ejaculation, and in order for a woman to achieve such a thing she must be totally relaxed, she has control over whether she ejaculates or not. When it isn't released outside the body, like a "squirt", it is redirected to the urethra where she just pees it out later. Also, stimulating her g-spot (yes every girl has one, it is just a different sensation for everyone) is important for that to happen. She must be very aroused, and when that moment comes she just needs to let it happen. There are alot of articles on this website about squirting, learning how to, answers to questions... everything you and your girl need to know!

Hope that helped.

~*Natree*~

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A male reader, tvl1987 Australia +, writes (3 July 2010):

Don't worry if you can't get your girlfriend to squirt. I can't get mine too either. I have done the research on the subject in an effort to be a better lover myself and it seems that some girls simply cannot do it. She either doesn't have a g-spot or it isn't sensitive. So, my first advice would be to see if G-spot stimulation works. Finger her with your middle finger and rub it along the upper wall. You should feel a rough spot. Stimulation to this is supposed to be very pleasurable. Don't stress out if it doesn't work though. Perfect orgasam through clitoral stimulation (Oral sex works very well, I find it is a huge turn on for me before and after sex)

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