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How soon is too soon to meet

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Question - (5 December 2016) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2016)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

We are talking online, we have many common interests, even if we are aiming for different jobs etc.

We live about 2 hours away from each other and have never met in person. However, we started talking about 2 months ago and speak every day, and flirt a little.

When would you guys think is too soon to meet him?

Any advice?

Were both 22

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (6 December 2016):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI would say it's time.

IF you live two hours apart you drive an hour towards him and he drives an hour towards you, meet in the middle have brunch or something and see if it clicks. And go from there.

My husband and I met first but were Long distance for about a year. We were a little over 90 minutes apart by car.

After 3 or 4 months of occasional visits we were together every weekend.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (6 December 2016):

Honeypie agony auntI don't think it's too soon to met now. There is a nice "base-line" of communications made over 2 months. You don't write how far from each other you live (which can be a factor) but I would suggest you make the first date something like lunch or coffee - something that can be 45 minutes or 2 hours. But I'd suggest NO overnights at each other's or visiting each other till you have established what you both WANT out if it. Instead have DATES/OUTINGS in public together.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2016):

N91 agony auntMeet whenever you both feel ready.

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2016):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntMy boyfriend and I met after 2 months, *but* we had video chatted a few times beforehand, to check we were who we said we were. If you haven't B done that, you need to.

Meeting (after video chatting) would be fine, at this stage, but you'd have to keep it to public places and not go to his home nor take him to yours. Suggest a meeting (after video chatting), but be very safe and cautious about it - letting someone close to you know where you'll be and who with.

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