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41-50,
*evin1981
writes:Hi Before I begin I just want to say that my situation is a little complicated......I met a girl last year who was one grade below me in high school, we never spoke much in high school but because of it being a familiar face we started communicating.. And our friendship grew, at the time I was seeing another lady who was messing me around and I was heartbroken and she was there for me. I guess we both where there for one another.So with that relationship gone we got kinda like close buddies, always being there for one another. And so how it blossomed into a romance, she was really into me but not me at first :)She then worked overseas and currently is overseas working (I'm going to visit her next year :) ) At first she was so into me, and I liked her. Now suddenly she's distant, I've spoken to her and she's happy like we chat when we chat.It's harder when they are far away, especially now when I care for her so much, I never blew her off went she felt that way for me but now I feel the same. LOLSo my question is she will be back next year after my visit, how should I play this long distance thing now, should I back off. I don;t want to seem to pushy...My mind is my worst enemy, sometimes when you send a message you can't help but wait for a response. It's such a wonderful feeling to know that you care for someone.... I don't don't want to freak out here :)Thanks K
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reader, Britney1922  +, writes (13 December 2010):
Most long distance relationships can be very hard. As long as you trust her and she trusts you then everything should be okay. If she is not responding to you right away maybe she is just busy. I was engaged to a soldier for the longest and that was really hard for me too. I would try to get ahold of him and sometimes it would take weeks for him to answer and the other way around. So it went both ways. You just have to be patient if you want it to work in the end.
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