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*tx512
writes:ok i am fifteen years old and i have a girlfriend we been doin it for a couple of months now but i want our sex life to get a little more intresting i want to ask my gf to give me oral how should i ask her what if it gets wierd when i ask her?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (25 August 2007):
 Hey babycakes,
Does it taste nasty? Well, it certainly can if you're not both clean (or if someone has an infection). I suggest taking showers first (take one together! Lots of fun.) so neither of you feel nervous about the way you might smell or taste. "Nasty" might be a strong word. But, when it's clean and healthy, it tastes like sex and intimacy, and that - my friend - is delicious.
I guess a good place to start would be with her. Make sure she's nice and comfortable and start heading south. When she get's used to you giving her oral sex, she might be a little more open to giving you oral sex. After you finish with her, just say something like, "mmm, that was nice... I'd love to feel your mouth on me, if you'd like." - if she looks nervous, if she tenses up, reassure her that she doesn't have to, and that you love her.
There's no easy way to bring it up. Just be as sweet as you can be and work hard on pleasuring her!
Good luck, sweetness!
xxIndia
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): The way my last bf asked was we were about to have sex and right before we did it he asked me if he could "put it in my mouth." So I was like sure.I found it weird that he was so polite about it just because my last bf before him used to say "s*ck my d*ck." He wasn't mean about it he just was very graphic.So it depends. You know. Like my ex ex bf used to say "I want to f*ck the hell out of you."But my ex bf always said "oh let's make love."You see? Everybody's different. So whoever you want to be, just be it. And however you feel most comfortable expressing yourself then do it that way. The point is that however you do it, just DO IT. Don't be afraid.
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reader, atx512 +, writes (25 August 2007):
atx512 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyour answer was great and no i dont give her oral so it will be the first time we ever do it but the question is do you have any good ideas how to mention it to my partner when is the perfect time dose it taste nasty to go down there for the both of us dont get me wrong i liked your answer i guess i should of been a little more clear
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (25 August 2007):
Alright, first things first:
If she says no, that's the answer, it's final, get over it.
What I mean by that, is DON'T PUSH HER. Don't make her feel bad about herself if she doesn't want to go that far. She has no obligation to do so.
Don't ask without addressing her with a whole lot of respect and a whole lot of honest. Don't get all, "hey baby, how 'bout...". I also think that timing is key. Feel out an appropriate moment when she's feeling particularly comfortable with you.
Do you give her oral?
I hope this works out for you, and I hope you're the sweetest you can be when you ask her.
Good luck, sweetness!
xxIndia
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