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writes:Do women over 55 enjoy sex or is it something they do to keep their man happy. I want to continue dating a woman thats 57. I've had a few dates with her and sex has not been discussed, not yet anyway, I don't want to embaress her. I plan to talk about it with her, but its too early in the friendship. I heard from a male friend his wife lost sexual interest after menopause and its a rare occaision that he gets any, if at all. I am 51 and still have plenty of sexual desire so I want a woman who is still into sex as well and I do not want to keep going out with her if there is going to be no sex. I am not a shallow man, but I would not like to see her have her hopes up on a relationship that can't do without sex. Reply to this Question |
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reader, eddie  + ♥, writes (28 November 2007):
 I still can't believe that some women are using such a broad brush to say men don't know how to sexually please a woman. If these women are not being pleased, they should make it known and show their partners what they need. I'd bet more often than not, most men are up for anything and are more than happy to see their partner pleased. Don't forget that women have the power in the bedroom. That is a fact quite often forgotten about by women after they've found their man and the kids arrive. I'd never say all women, but many. Women are definitely the more complicated of the two when it comes to being pleased. Men are much more basic. Some would say men need to do deeper while others would say women should quit trying to hide so much.
But. please don't say most men don't know this or that. Nobody knows most men or most women, especially sexually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): I am 50 and enjoy sex more than I ever have in my life before, because my new husband knows how to please me. I honestly think I now know what its all about and what I've been missing. It toally depends on your partner I think and how much effort you both put into pleasing each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): Well I agree with anon about a lot of men, they only think about their own pleasure, if they took the time to make a woman feel really good they would find women responding better. I have asked loads of friends about this one, and they agree but dont want to hurt their boyfriend feelings telling them what they are doing wrong.
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reader, eddie + ♥, writes (27 November 2007):
What a stupid comment by the anonymous aunt....most men are useless in bed. I don't think much thought went into that one. I think sex is always there but probably dwindles somewhat with age, like most hings. That is a generalization, some want it and some don't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): It depends on how good the man is.... truth, most men are so useless in bed its no wonder women dont want it. My man is 50 and incredible. I cant get enough of him.
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