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How much emphasis do guys put on a girl's past sexual experience?

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Question - (16 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *embot85 writes:

How much emphasis do guys put on a girls sexual experience? Although I've fooled around a bit and have done various things, I've never had a proper relationship and have never felt it was the right time or place to go all the way. But now I'm very wary about how to approach this with a man. I'm worried about how they will judge the situation. For example, would it scare some guys if the implication was that a girl had saved herself for them? Sorry for the rambling question.

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A male reader, agony_uncle_r United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2007):

its very much the opposite. most men like to know theyre the first or are one of only a few at least. men and women dont want to be just another number, but men especially dont like 'easy' women (not in a relationship).

some men may feel pressured being your first as its a big deal loosing your virginity and should be a special moment. if he respects you then he will let you do things at your pace and make sure your comfortable at all stages.

most of all be safe and carefull and use protection, the last thing you want from your 1st time is an sti

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A female reader, CarrieMagdelene United States +, writes (16 February 2007):

CarrieMagdelene agony auntOn the contrary, this is a good question. Guys usually go over the top with being selective of a girls' past. Why? Beats the hell out of me! He shouldn't be too upset considering you've never gone all the way. He shouldn't even be upset. It's important that a guy respect you and your past choices. Don't go into detail with him. Rattle off a few things you've done if he ASKS you to do so. Tell him you're a virgin and he'll be thrilled, most likely. Hope this helps! -Carrie

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