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writes:I have just recently got back in touch with a male friend of mine after 5yrs.For the last month and a half we have been meeting up.Any free spare time he has he will call me.On xmas eve we had a falling out over some email i sent him, the email was very petti. I then kept sending more emails to clear the air after he asked for space..i waited 4days then i said sorry i had some stuff going on which i took out on him. He said he wont pretend my actions haven't affected the friendship and he doesn't know what will happen to our friendship, he said he will leave me for now to deal with my issues. That was new years eve, his male friends have had sex with girls he was seeing and he forgave that friend he told me his friend meant no harm. How long should i wait before i contact him and going by what i have said, he has said, do you think he know longer wants to be friends. Hes always busy so hes always stressed, it needs to be the right time to contact him. Reply to this Question |
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reader, happy24birthday  + ♥, writes (2 January 2009):
 Try your best not to contact him at all, but if you feel you must contact him, wait at least 2 weeks (start your 2 weeks today). It will be agony, but you will make it. He may contact you before 2 weeks is up. Try your best not to obsess about it, as you will make yourself crazy. Just try to stay busy and keep your mind off of it. Easy for me to say, I know! But I've been there and not contacting him really is the best thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): Well the content of the email must have been pretty bad to hurt him. He said he would give you time so you can work things out so why don't you go work them out? Find out what you need to do to make you happy and sucessful and don't worry about him. I'd give it at least 2 weeks.
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