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writes: How long should a male last in sex? also what techniques could you apply to last longer
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): dude,i personally find that going slow and not tightening ur wank when u make love helps u to last longer,also drink a red bull and eat a banana
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008): Have a wank discreetly before sex (I usually pretend I'm going to toilet). Then on return pleasure your girl without letting her pleasure you, as you'll be floppy. Then when your back up, get it poppin!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008): my boyfriend is also worried about this.
It depends on age, whether you're under the influence of alcohol and under what circumstances.
younger males (primarily teenagers) have more problem lasting, whereas this problem decreases with age.
The 'squeeze' techinique is supposed to work well, and masturbation before sex increases lasting time.
Hope that helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): Have a wank before!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): dont use pills becuse once u stop usinng them the stamina and all of that stops with it. u can last longer if u have confidenc that u can satisfy her. use a toy on her till she is ready then join in. u will have satisfed her thus subconchesly u fill GOOD and your mind will releve the anxity of not being abal to satisfy her in tern your body natraly will produs stamina and thing will work out. trust me i have had this hapin. time to last is up to her on avreg 20 to 45 min.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): the important things is you must enjoy the girls first and control ur orgasm..by stopping and wait ur partner blows up and hug u tightly then that is the signal that a man will blow his own
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reader, sleepysly +, writes (5 October 2006):
 hello,well im no expert but i have heard that if you massage yourself daily not to get an errection but to know your manhood and notice how the different muscles work. practice getting to climax but then stopping short. this might help. perhaps while making you should withdraw and get pleasure from touching to make the event last. good luck
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reader, shawn styles  +, writes (4 October 2006):
This hasn't been mentioned yet. You can buy special types of condoms that help you to last longer. They are called durex performa and have a special lubricant that delays orgasm.
Also I find that the angle of intercourse can affect your staying power. If you find the right spot with your partner you can thrust and grind at a decent pace without having any feelings of approaching ejaculation.
But to be totally honest it depends on so many factors (how long you last) such as stress, body image, emotional connection and tiredness. But no matter if you have intercourse for 5 minutes or 5 hours its THE EXPERIENCE that counts so make the most of and enjoy.
Wishing you luck
S.S
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (2 October 2006):
 If you think about something other than what you're doing when you feel like you're about ready to come, that sometimes works. Like, think about your 80 year-old grandmother. That will put the breaks on many a pre-mature blast off.
If you want to know a good time frame, wait until your girlfriend comes. If she's satisfied, you can assume it's O.K. to let her rip. Or, if you want to come simultaneously, you can tell when she's ready to climax and join her. Timing is everything.
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reader, helpful girl +, writes (1 October 2006):
 there is no time limit on haveing sex, but to last longer maybe he could take it more slowly and gentel that normally solves the problem also missionary i would say but then again you can do it any style its mainly the speed and roughness that makes a man cum so quick!
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reader, camille +, writes (1 October 2006):
 Ther is no definitive answer to the time. Some men only last seconds, some minutes, some hours....It's all relative and very varying. I guess you could put it around the 10-20 minute area including foreplay. There can be times when a quickie is all that's needed, when other times longer sex sessions. If lasting longer is what you're after, there are a few things you could try. The first one is to practice when masturbating to stop just before you feel you're going to ejaculate. Before penetrative sex, if you can perhaps give your partner lots of attention/foreplay but not get too stimulated yourself, this may make you last longer. Also during sex stop and wait, then carry on, it will prolong the time and in time, can improve your staying power. There are devices you can buy, like penis rings. If you put one on when you have an erection it will maintain it by slightly cutting off the blood supply and I hear it's also used when wanting longer sessions. There are natural herb remedies that you can buy as well as of course, the much publicised Viagra. I wouldn't suggest recreational drugs as they can have long term effects that will actually make the problem worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006): Men like things that fell good, or things really sexy and hard.
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