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writes: How soon after a divorce do people usually feel comfortable dating?
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (1 March 2006):
 You set the time table. 15 minutes is fine with some..others never ever date again. You should be somewhere in between. Have you met someone you Want to date? If so...it's time. Dates are not relationships unless you have several of them with the same person. You should start practicing as soon as you can have a conversation that does not revolve around what a jerk your ex is, or how he hurt you, or any subject involving him that is not a direct question from your date. (Don't clam up...your date has the right to establish that you are indeed available) But don't ramble on and on about every detail of your terrible divorce....if you do...then you are not ready.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (1 March 2006):
 There are no set time tables and it depends on circumstances like how hurt you were, did you get cheated on, did you do any cheating, have you got kids, are you over your ex completely etc.
You will know when the time feels right, my advice is to not try and put any kind of time on this just go with the flow, have fun and if you meet a bloke and want to date then do, if it feels right take it from there.
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