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writes:So my BF and I have reached 3rd base. (hands onley so far) His b-day is coming up soon, and I think I'd like to try going down on him... All I'm wondering, is how long does a guy usually last? I'm not worried about the whole coming in mouth thing, thats no issue for me, but I want to know how long the average guy would last...
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reader, Illithid  + ♥, writes (17 September 2009):
 Not long, but the time will vary based on how much you are enjoying it. I've taken 15+ minutes when my ex was doing it just as a sacrifice for me and I knew it, as she put no effort into it and made me feel guilty for even wanting it (even though I had spent an hour on her earlier that day). I have finished in less than five minutes when she volunteered to do it and acted like she was having fun getting me going.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (9 September 2009):
 There is a huge range. If he's 40 you'd probably be down there for half an hour but if he's 17 and you do it right, you'll be done in a few minutes.
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reader, sexlessintheuk  +, writes (9 September 2009):
 About 3-4 minutes on average, depending on how long ago he masturbated.
Personally I like to make it last a bit longer. Get some nice tasting lubricant. Massage him with that, including the balls. Use a combination of mouth and hands, work the shaft and don't get your mouth involved with the tip until near the end.
The mistake most women make is ignoring the balls, doing it dry, just going straight for the head straight away (ok sometimes there is a place for this too) and being too gentle. Cover your teeth. Don't attempt the deep throat porn move at this stage.
Your enthusiasm will be his biggest turn on. He might like a bit of eye contact.
Sorry, I could go on and on, this is one of my favourite things! I will stop waffling now, good luck!
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reader, ptw72a +, writes (9 September 2009):
Personally i can cum very quickly from oral because it gets me so excited watching it. But you can control it to a degree yourself.
It will be pretty obvious when he gets close, if you want to prolong it you can stop- maybee lick the shaft a little and generally tease.
If its taking too long and your jaw aches then dont worry! just take a break and use your hand for a little bit..or if you want to keep him excited you can rub it between your breasts..guys love that.
Im sure he will love it and be eager to repay the favour, good luck.
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