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writes:right this may seem silly and it seems silly to me.I was reading this book called "loving danny" by hilary freeman. It's about this girl who meets a lad called danny. He is the perfect boyfriend loving, caring, rich and takes her out for meals and treats her great, and I have grown to fall in love with this character in this book. He's the perfect boyfriend. everything i want in a lad, it makes me feel really sad and lonely and broken hearted. if only this lad was real and i could get a boy just like this. im thinking about this character all the time i cant really sleep becuase of it and i find myself crying, and what over,, a lad out of a book. im 13 by the way and this lad was 20. please tell me why im feeling like this. thankss xx Reply to this Question |
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reader, q1605  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 yes love. and you know in the movies where a couple of 16 year olds get pregnant and married and live forever with a life time of committed love and admiration doing battle with the world with nothing but the income of one convenience store clerk job. They will all be relegated to the same bin with the easter bunny and santa claus because they only exist in the theater of the mind
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): Aww. Well let me tell you something sweetheart. I think it is wonderful that you at least have an idea of what your ideal guy would be like. Cause alot of people go there whole lives without having a clue and then they end up settling and putting up with behaviors that suck cause they never really gave it much thought to begin with.
But you are a hopeless romantic and you are already so keen and observant and aware of the qualities that you would like in your ideal mate. You really need to keep those qualities fresh and alive in your mind. That's what's going to guide you to meet the right one. I guess you are just sad though cause perhaps it will be a while before you meet him and before you're even ready to settle down.
I used to get crushes when I was your age. And I would cry cause it hurt so bad that I couldn't have the person I thought I loved. Maybe you are just ready for a boyfriend. Is there anyone you are interested in?
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (19 February 2008):
 Its normal to feel lonely. To want someone there to love you and take care of you and to keep you safe. I know how you feel. I've been there. All I can say is to hold tight and wait for someone to come and love you for you. However, beware those guys who say they appreciate you and compliment you all the time and try to sweep you off your feet. It's not a good feeling to have your heart broken, sweetie.
It'll pass in time.
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