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How does a female tell when she is coming?

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Question - (23 October 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello I Was Just Wondering? I Know Girls Cum Too! But How Can They Tell If They Are Cumming? And Is It Normal If You Can Not Tell When Your Cumming As A Feamle?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009):

If you need to ask, then you haven't had a real orgasm.. You probably got close, but did not cross over to the dark side.

Girls orgasm differently, however, all orgasms result in the clitoris getting very sensitive and the vaginal wall muscles contracting quickly. When I eat out my g/f, I slide a finger up inside her vagina so I can feel her contractions while I suck and lick her clit and labia. That helps me time her orgasm. When she cums She usually grabs my head and pulls my mouth off of her vagina because her clit gets too sensitive to touch. Her face gets very flush, her toes curl up, and she often shudders. If you haven't experienced all of these, then you haven't orgasmed.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009):

Trust me when I tell you, you would know!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009):

if you are about to orgasm you will know about it trust me. it is a wonderful feeling if not intense.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009):

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Ok I Have Been Told That I Have "Came" While Having Sex Because i have asked one of my parters about it! And He indeed Told Me OH YES YOU HAVE 5 TIMES But I have Not Felt Anything! REALLY SHOULD I SEEK A DOCTOR?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Ok I Have Been Told That I Have "Came" While Having Sex Because i have asked one of my parters about it! And He indeed Told Me OH YES YOU HAVE 5 TIMES But I have Not Felt Anything! REALLY SHOULD I SEEK A DOCTOR?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (23 October 2009):

DoubleM agony auntAccording to my experiences with women, they have said that a sensation for a false need to urinate often precedes orgasm. Interestingly, but less reported, the sensation is similar for men, but as we all become more experienced, we learn to discern the difference.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009):

When a woman has an orgasm she feels great pleasure, her vaginal muscles will also contract rapidly, it's pretty much impossible not to tell that you're "coming". If you're having an orgasm, you will KNOW.

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