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writes:While me and my boyfriend are doing foreplay, and getting 'heatin' up for sex. He ALWAYS asks me "how you want it, baby?"and i get sooo put on the spot! We have no names for any of our positions, and...i can't even think of anything sexy to say. The only name i know, is the "cow", and that just sounds too awkard to say.When we were communicating about sex, he says that i should keep a position in mind, b/c he thinks its extremely sexy when i tell him how i want it.I don't know how to make it sound sexy. All i know- is to be like "Well...that one thing..where you lay me on my stomach...anddd..." etc. and he'll have to sit there and think about it...and i dont know. What should i say?We have tried every sex position that we love, so its not like we can try anything new we haven't before. And theres soo many to choose from! I just don't know what to say during this time, explain what i want, and be sexy about it also!Whats your advice?
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (8 March 2009):
 Starfish .. you just gave me hysterical giggling fits ...
OK, here's my oh so boring suggestions:
- go to a bookshop and get yourself loads of books on sexual positions
- search online for educational sex positions (try kama sutra)
- go to the supermarket and get stuff that can be put on your body so that you can lick it clean off each other body (or "body parts"). just make sure they are washable if they happen to spill all over your sheets.
So next time he says "how do you want it, baby" you can "i want it sweet" he can literally do it for you! with honey, with chocoloate syrup, with maple syrup. (hope he is not diabetic though). Or spicy, or hot, or tangy ... you get the drift! LOL
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reader, OtherStarfish +, writes (8 March 2009):
 be mean; tell him you want the happy Giraffe or the cruise missile this time. (have fun finding those...i just made them up). he will say how do you do them... you say he should know! and stop asking stupid questions when we are shagging....
Star.x.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (8 March 2009):
 Id actually try asking him first and see how he feels about it. I know this puts you on the spot but it may very well be he could be a little nervous with it too.
Try it and let us know what happens
Cheers :)
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows +, writes (8 March 2009):
 Just say like
"Do me from behind, I love doggy style.
Or "Missonairy, I love you on top of me"
Look online for some of the common position names, so you know what you want!
Good Luck!
xx
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reader, girlygirl07 +, writes (8 March 2009):
I had an ex that asked me that too and I would get so nervous and say stupid things now with my fiance he will ask and I just let go and tell him how I want it! If you don't know what to say, say I want it however you want to give it to me. Tell him you what u want, what would make u orgasm or squirt!! Good luck!
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