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How do you know if your a lesbian/bisexual?

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Question - (20 March 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2011)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *hadowre writes:

ok, I have another lil' prob.

How do you know if your a lesbian/bisexual? (I have a boyfriend and like him a lot) Like when I watch porn, I watch lesbian porn only! There have been a few occasions where I have looked at a girl and said "I'd like to do her".

I wouldn't really mind being bi, coz you have bit of variety you know!!! I'am just curious?

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A female reader, natalieejanex United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2011):

natalieejanex agony auntbeing bisexual isn't just about sex or the physicality of it, to be bi or gay you have to be emotionally attracted to the same gender! porn nor does sex change your sexuality. you are born a certain way. ask yourself these things ok; "would i ever love another girl?" "could i have a relationship with a girl" "would i feel comfortable with it". if its a no, your straight..

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A female reader, shadowre Ireland +, writes (20 March 2008):

shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the question

shadowre agony auntthats so kool!! i know what you mean by wanting to know how to well in my case give a lickout to a grl! anyway, i'll try that. awsome

thanx

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A male reader, 17Irish17 United States +, writes (20 March 2008):

I know how you feel just from the "man's" side. I like watching bisexual porn where men are involved. I like to watch and wonder what it was like to give a man a blow job. So like "BigSis" said, "There is only one way to find out." That is what I did. I enjoyed it, but I like being with women more. I have a "bud" where we get together about once every 6-9 months and give each other a blow job.

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A female reader, red1982 United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2008):

Why label yourself? I hate the fact that everyone has to be straight, gay or bi. Just be yourself. You fancy who you fancy, and it sounds as if you like both.

But while you have a boyfriend stay faithful to him. Fantasise as much as you like, but don't let it go any further, he will be really hurt if you cheat with a man or a woman.

If you really want to experiment with your sexuality make sure that you are single and safe.

My advice to you is to work out what you want before settling down, and do whatever makes you happy - not what other people want you to do.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2008):

BigSis agony auntFor you to be feeling 'horny' when you watch lesbians, to me is quite normal. For some women it's a real turn on, and in my opinion there is nothing wrong with that. Truth be known, i've seen lesbians indulging in sexual activities (I know, strange dicription, but it sounds better) and i've thought it to be 'very interesting', where as my three sisters are disgusted by it.

I think you may well be bi-sexual. You know the saying, 'Curiosity killed the cat' well there's only one way of finding out.

I really can't think of anything else to add to that, but just go and have some fun - if that's what tickles your fancy...pardon the pun :) xXx

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