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How do you kiss a tall guy, if you're a short girl like me?

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Question - (30 November 2007) 10 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Ok odd question I know...but how do you kiss a really tall guy? I'm small (5'3) and he's like 6'2 which is alot taller than me!

I really like him, but he's never really had a gf before so I kinda have to initiate things...which is hard because he's so tall!!

Any tips would be great!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009):

hey dude I have that SAME question my boyfriend is like 5'9" and im like 5'2" so we are like 7 inches difference and like what I do is stand on my tip-toes then like he kinda bends his knees I mean hes getting a kiss he will work with it! lol hope this helps!!

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A male reader, heartfullalove Ireland + , writes (21 July 2009):

heartfullalove agony auntAh, lovely. At 5'5'', I think I can help.

Sashay over towards him while he's in a sitting position, kiss him, and let it go from there. But if he's standing up, there's a few things you can do:

Lean a little backwards, so he has to 'stoop down to your level' as it were, cradling your back. Think classic Hollwood screen kiss...

or wear really killer heels to elevate you a couple of inches;

or start by kissing his chest (Men love this).

If he's much bigger and stronger than you, he can lift you up and you've got it totally sorted!

Logistically it does pose a problem, but I'm sure you can overcome it with a little ingenuity.

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A female reader, baby_chick1234567 United States +, writes (20 July 2009):

ok i suggest that you lay down and kiss but if you standing up then he can pick you up and set you on the wall cuz im in the same boat you are but im 4' 11" and hes 6'3" lol big diff huh well thats wat we do

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008):

ow you got such sweet answers!! I am in the same situation, if not worse, I can hardly wrap my arms around his neck, but I use peoples doorsteps and museum stairs to surprisingly kiss him. Luckily he sits behind his computer a lot and so I can kiss him easily. Then he can take you in his arms and you'll have the same height and kiss while your bellies touch. that is important for me, I need to feel him while kissing.Wrap your arms around his neck isn't alway recommendable, if he is really tall, he might have some spine probs, and you do not want to wreck him do you?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008):

what a coincidence

my girlfriend is 5'3 and i am 6'3. she is able to do it just fine just as the people above posted. Those work for us. But my best suggestion is let him lean on a wall or something and slant down and you will be equal height. after a while it will hurt his toes. it hurts me but i hold it in:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you all for your answers...I'll try them and see what happens! Fingers crossed!

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A male reader, Zim United Kingdom +, writes (1 December 2007):

Zim agony auntMy girlfriend is shorter than me, probably about the same difference as you two. From my angle, I can't quite see but I think she stands on her toes. She puts her arms around my neck and looks into my eyes... The first time that happened I was just completely lost for words. A kiss will follow soon afterwards guaranteed. If you are unsure, start leaning towards him and begin to close your eyes, but not completely. This is the kind of body language that initiates the other person. However, take things the way you want and how you feel they should go.

Other than that, when you're both sitting down lean in for a kiss quickly. There's nothing that melts any unsureness quicker than a slow surprise kiss.

Good luck and I hope this helps!

ZIM

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A male reader, auvi Bangladesh +, writes (1 December 2007):

1. wear heels

2. stand on ur heels

3. wrap your arms around his neck

4. expect him to lower his head cuz he too needs to realize the height difference

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (1 December 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntCuddle up to him and stand on your tip toes or just come out and ask him to kiss you

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A female reader, bqagirl2692 United States +, writes (1 December 2007):

bqagirl2692 agony auntThis isnt so hard. How tall a person is and how short another maybe has nothing to do with the feelings you have for that person. Kiss him how you'd kiss any other guy. If it bothers you that much that he mayb have to bend down a lot, then try being in positions that the both of you can feel comfortable ( like maybe sitting). Dont let the height get to you because you dont want him to think you care more about how he looks rather than who he is.

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