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How do you give the perfect blow job?

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Question - (20 April 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2011)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I wanna give my bf the best head but I don't kno how to do it...also I've never done it be4

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A female reader, lovelygia Afghanistan +, writes (31 October 2011):

The very first secret to giving great head is to feel sexy. Sound silly? Think about it a minute, when you really feel sexy and turned by the thought of giving a great blow job your eagerness alone will cause you to improve your technique and eventually you may just become a true blow job queen of the highest order.

After you've got your attitude right, it's time to get right down to it. Teeth scraping ruins a great blow job, period. If you're scraping your teeth across your man's penis he's going to literally recoil in pain. He may not admit it in an attempt to be nice, but if your scraping your teeth you're really failing to give pleasure.

I realize that a big fat penis may be difficult to suck without scraping, but it is doable, here's a great tip – fold your lips around your teeth. If you watch porn you may have noticed this technique, it's priceless when you come face to face with an unusually fat cock. Oh and if you do, consider yourself lucky, there aren't as many of them out there as you might think. If you need more detailed tips, search for Jack's Blowjob Lessons

In order to make your man climax and orgasm from a blow job it's all about getting into a good rhythm and applying the correct pressure. Blow jobs are really "blow" jobs are all, they're suck jobs really. So learn how to suck your man's penis at the exact right pressure and with the exact right speed and rhythm and he's going to blow a huge load.

Hope this help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2007):

When i am giving my boyfriend head he loves it when i start of slow and stay at the head for a minute or two then gradually speed up and move futher down the cock using my hand to masturbate the bottom half as its to big to fit in my mouth trying to deep throte will never work becasue you will just retch and give up lots of lubrication its a must because there is no dry rough sensation DO NOT GET ANY PEIRCING TO ENHANCE PLEASURE it will not work just take up room suck and lick as mush as mossible and when you feel the dick start to tence and swell start to tence your lips and grip your hand a bit harder and slow right down moving in a hard thrust motion like when he climaxs during sex the motion he used to finish of basicly good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007):

when i blow my boyfriend, i have him lay back on the couch with me kneeling on the floor between his legs. This allows me to look at his reaction while doing the deed.

Just follow your instincts, like kissing it, licking it, bringing it in and out of your mouth so he feels different sensations....be sure to make little sounds that tell him how into it you are, or make comments about his manlihood....if you want to play with yourself a bit, that's cool too....keep in mind that at that moment when you have his dick in your mouth, that you are in control, so enjoy the power of the moment....like you can tease him and ask him to say stuff that turns you on....like ask him "do u wanna cum in my mouth?" and like, of course he does, but get him to say that to you, that's real hot...when he indicates that the moment of truth is coming, just take him as deep inside your mouth as you can without gagging, look at his face and make sure he can see yours, and let him spurt as you use your hands to jerk the base of his cock to help his orgasm be complete. It is not like it is such a big amount that it won't all fit in your mouth, it will and you just have to go with the flow, let the juices run ito your mouth and just hold them there with his cock pulsing to a finish and he will be so happy....Then, when he is done coming, take his dick out of your mouth, throw your head back and swallow in one motion. He will never forget it! But be sure this whole scene starts or ends with you getting your own fair share!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007):

well first of all i want to say u start out slow by kissing him softly and slowly then move down the chin and the neck bacickly kiss all the way down till u get to his pants....but make sure hes still wereing his pants that way its kinky! then lick the top of his pants then slowly unbutten his pants then unzip and remove then then softly kiss the head of it then lick the head all the way down then back up to the top then start by putting a small amount in ur mouth like just the head and rub ur toung on it and around it then go down a lil and then get faster and faster and deeper and deeper till u cant go any deeper! u do not have to go till he cums just do it till u cant any more if ur gonna let him cum in ur mouth u can fill his cock getting bigger and throbbing hard put it as far in the back of ur mouth and hell cum down ur throte and u wont tast it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2007):

i use k-y jelly. i out my hand at the top of this penis, i go up and down.just get a rythm going.

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A male reader, Dr. Mark Canada +, writes (20 April 2007):

There is also this one, that gives some first time suggestions: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-give-my-boyfriend-a-great.html

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A male reader, DearCupid United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2007):

DearCupid agony auntCheck out the similar question links (underneath your question).

Andrew

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