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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:how do you get over a woman who you cant decide is hurt or just plain malicious and stupid? met this woman on facebook...of all places, and we decided to meet up. She was perfect. couldnt ask for a prettier or more polite lady. from the off I knew she was married but when your in for a good time you dont think of the consequences. i fell in love with her stupidly and have struggled to get over my emotions. this has been going on for 4 months and every time i start to forget about her something shit happens like her husband rings me telling me that ive made her life hell!! she messed things up to a point that was rather vindictive as she turned up for a meet drunk and complained she risked everything by meeting me. i left her to her drink and her life and ive been cunt....unless i tell her that i still love her and allow her husband to make my life a misery.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): I'm pretty sure you don't need me to say that this is a bad situation. You need to prepare yourself because either choice you make, you lose. The thing you need to understand about women is that sometimes they create drama to make their lives more interesting. It is definitely possible that she does love you, but you need to consider the possibility that she is just a person who is bored with her life. Even without even realizing she is doing it, she might be trying to getting a reaction out of her husband either to spice up the relationship or to escape from it.I wouldn't suggest getting in the middle of her relationship with her husband. It never ends well. Try not to let her blame you for her problems. If you choose not to be with her, make sure you tell her in a kind but straightforward manner. Be clear with your intentions so that you both know what is going on. Personally I think it would be better for you to start fresh in a more healthy relationship, but of course the choice is ultimately yours. Good luck and stay strong.
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