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jerri361
writes: How do you flirt with a guy without looking desperate? I really like a guy and want to show im interested but im not very experienced and dont want to scare him off because I really like him!! thanks!!
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (5 January 2007):
 well just get to know him for a while first find out what hes like if you still like him then simply ask for his number, if theres male freind you both know when your all together give him a hug and a kiss on the cheek say hi then chat and dont give the others a hug. or as childish as it sounds get some one to tell him pretending you dont know their going to tell him if he confronts you then reply with oh god they wernt meant to tell i look like a right plonker now dont i. see where it goes from there.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (4 January 2007):
 yes i agree with the previous answer, lots of eye contact, if he returns yous gaze for over 5 or six seconds then you are on to a winner. Smile at him alot, be interested in what he is doing, or what he did. And bring something up that maybe he said a week ago.
Do some light touching, but not to much, touch his hand maybe when he passes something to you.
Hope this helps you, and good luck x
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (4 January 2007):
 I would say don't start anything. If he starts to flirt with you, this is the green light for you to play too! You starting the flirting can look desperate and you don't want him to play along just because he feels he must!
Just make some eye contact, make some jokes, laugh at all his, maybe throw in a bit of arm and chest touching! Do whatever feels right, just don't come on too strong, as he will run a mile!
If he doesn't flirt with you and you really want to get things moving, do it subtley. Eye contact, jokes etc.
Good luck and let me know how it goes!
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