How do you deal with losing someone who made you genuinely happy when you did nothing to cause the distance?

A male age 30-35, *akers_lover09 writes:

Thank u in advance for ur help. So i had a female friend who i have been getting along with since September. We would see and talk to one another at least twice a week. I had feelings for her but since it was a great connection i let it play itself out. Problem( is, she spent the night with me last Saturday (no sex or kissing just laid in bed and fell asleep). This is the last I've heard from her. Wen i contact her, she is either brief or doesn't respond and when i saw her on campus today, even tho she acted normal, i could tell it was awkward. I didn't do anything to upset her or make her start avoiding me. And how i feel like someone i had feelings for and was a good friend is gone. I know u guys cant help since u dnt know her, but can u tell me how do i just accept losing someone i care for even when i did nothing to cause her to become distant? How do i deal with losing someone who made me genuinely happy?

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