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female
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anonymous
writes:I am female interested in another female. I initially disliked this person a lot when I first met her. I kept my distance and never spoke to her. She does know who I am so I am no stranger. We have had a few classes together. My feelings have literally shifted overnight and for the past two weeks I can't get her out of my mind!! I find myself fantasizing about her and it's even worse when we are in class together as it becomes distracting. Can someone please offer advice? I don't know how to approach her without knowing if she's into women as well. It's especially awkward because I usually give her the cold shoulder so it will seem like I am talking to her out of the blue and will be weird. I want to tell her desperately without sounding foolish or feeling embarrassed. I really like her, but I am confused at why my feelings have come on so strong so suddenly. I have know her for awhile but this is coming out of no where it seems. I have always had relationships with men so this is new to me. Not sure what to do. :( Reply to this Question
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reader, Ciar  + ♥, writes (11 July 2015):
 Instead of taking a huge leap, why not start small by gradually thawing out around her?
You could start with a familiar nod when you see her, or even a brief 'hello'.
No need to rush this.
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