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*3puremage1
writes:Hi everyone, this is not my first time posting in here. I am quite lost at the moment because I am not sure about relationships between women and men.In the past two years, I have been seeking for a suitable partner or a girlfriend for myself because somehow I started to have this demand.My female friends are very close to me but somehow they are not willing to be my girlfriend. I have confronted to a girl who used to be my best friend but she went out with another guy instead. It was heartbroken. I will be in a new sixth form next year and I have already met some new people already including one very friendly girl who is somehow quite interested in me but she has a boyfriend, therefore I am not going to waste my time on her. More importantly, I don't want to see my best female friend turns into just a facebook friend because something gone terribly wrong between me and her.I just wonder how do people get to their boyfriend or girlfriend??
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (18 August 2011):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your help. I really appreciate it.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (16 August 2011):
 The main key thing to remember here is that you have to take the next step to boyfriend material BEFORE you fall into the friend zone. Not many people meet their partners by being best friends first, in fact out of all my boyfriends in the past I have never been friends with them first.
Generally you meet someone, whether this is through school, work, a club....whatever....you talk to them a bit first, get their phone number or add them on facebook, then ask them out on a date. Dont mess around being friends first and taking too long to ask the girl out - if you wait more than a few days after meeting then she will think you only want to be friends and are not interested.
So remember this - DONT date your friends! If you see a girl you like, talk to her, flirt with her, if she responds well then get her number and then you can ask her out on a date. If you are clear from the start that you like her rather than you just want to be friends, you are far more likely to get a girlfriend.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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