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How do I turn it from kissing into more without looking stupid?

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Question - (15 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi this is really embarrassing but i didnt know who else to ask...

im 20 and have just got together with a girl for the first time (i came out about 6 months ago so this is all a bit new). weve kissed and cuddled and stuff but im really nervous about taking it any further! ive been with 2 guys and just did it without much thought but with this girl there is strong feelings and i really want to do things right to satisfy her...so basically what i want to know is---

how do i initiate things with her, how do i turn it from kissing into more without looking stupid. and also, what can i do to satusfy her? ive never done it with a girl and want to do it right.

any tips would be great thankyou xx

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A female reader, Georgia13 United States +, writes (18 February 2010):

Georgia13 agony aunt if u dont wna talk to her about it, i think u should try being a little agressive wen ur kissing her, pull her closer, maybe she'll notice and initiate

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2010):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntYou could talk to her about it but i feel that talking about sex can sometimes ruin the passion or surprising nature that sex is based on. You could try kissing her neck while your kissing and seeing where it goes or slide your hand up her leg and see how she reacts, but if you feeling talking would be easier for you then go for it, its different for everyone . =] x

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A female reader, cheryl9245 Canada +, writes (16 February 2010):

well you could try talking to her about it first..explain that you are nervous and maybe ask that she innitates the sex the first 1 or 2 times just so you can kinda get the hang of it and this way it will also show you what she likes and what turns her on..

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