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How do I tell my Mom that I'm bi?

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Question - (23 January 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2009)
A male Ireland age 22-25, *awaii23 writes:

Hi!

In a moment my moms gonna come and check me

Im now ready to come out and tell her that im bi..

My question is.. How do i tell her slowly? I dont want her to freak out!

Plz help... Im really nervous ryt now..

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A male reader, Cerberus Ireland + , writes (23 January 2009):

Cerberus agony auntI agree take your time and wait 'til you feel confident enough to do it, Good Luck!

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A female reader, Felina Portugal +, writes (23 January 2009):

Felina agony auntIt´s okay.Don´t worry.When you feel you´re ready,then tell her.There is no rush...

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A male reader, Kawaii23 Ireland +, writes (23 January 2009):

Kawaii23 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

.... I didnt tell her

I panicked and got scared...

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A male reader, Kawaii23 Ireland +, writes (23 January 2009):

Kawaii23 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Tnks guyz!

She'll be here by now and tell her slowly..

Wish me luck!

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A female reader, Felina Portugal +, writes (23 January 2009):

Felina agony auntHi!I´m a 26 girl,and found out a fiew years ago I love man,but like to be with other girls,nothing like serious relationships,just physical.

My mother doesn´t know about it,and I don´t feel I should tell her.She is very liberal and modern,but I just don´t want to tell her.But,you say you´re bisexual,will you have a serious relationship with a man?If so,yes you should tell her.But if you only like guys for sex and fun,I don´t know if you must.

Honesty is very important for a parent/son relationship.If you feel you must tell her,then do.Maybe a long calm conversation will be the best.And yes,tell her slowly,don´t just tell her you´re gay.Shell go mad!!

Good luck!

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A male reader, Cerberus Ireland + , writes (23 January 2009):

Cerberus agony auntYou could try and guage what she would think about it before you come out. Try finding out her views on sexuality before you come out, you might even ask her how she would feel if you said you were bi, then if she hates the idea and asks you why you asked you can brush it off and say a friend came out to his parents recently.

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