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writes:Okay i am really attracted to a guy. And I don't know how he feels about me. But I was wondering if I should tell him or not, I wouldnt know how to bring it up in a conversation, but would it make him more attracted to me? because I know that when I find out a guy is attracted to me it does make more thoughs about them go through my mind, and maybe even makes me more attracted to them because it makes me more open to the idea. Is this commen, if so will telling him increase his attraction for me maybe? and how do I tell him? How do I bring it up in a conversation. Please Give me some advice, before I burst.]Cheers Reply to this Question |
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reader, Brooke123 +, writes (16 January 2008):
Heya sweetie, right..
I think that you should maybe try flirting with him maybe making it obvious that you do like him? After doing this u can see how he reacts, this will make it easier to bring up in a conversation. I think that u telling him this and him liking u more will just depend on his feelings for you allready, I understand where ur coming from as I get the same thing, if someone likes me and starts paying more attention then I feel more attracted to them, maybe thats what you should do for a while, start flirting a lot more and paying him lots of attention allthough u dnt wnt to try too hard. After this he may realise that he likes it and likes u too. If u dnt want to do this and u wnt to just tell him straight up then just get him alone and tell him how u feel or maybe just inviting him out on a date and then u dnt hav to say it bt yet its obvious, thats always easier to say.
Just remain calm and be confident, guys love that!
Hope this has helped and email me if need more, im sure it will be fine. Good luck :] x
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