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writes:this guy, a complete player once used to mess me about. I am now not seeing him anymore but recently we have been back in touch and i want to give him a dose of his own medicine. I want to make him think that I can be a player too. Don't get me wrong, i am not saying I want revenge but I just want him to find me interesting. So how do i act like I am interesting????thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): Arange to meet him with the promise of some 'fun', dont turn up then just forget about him forever. He will probably catch something nasty off someone at some point....
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2006): Revenge IS sweet, but it can always backfire, and in this case, I think it will. I tried this once, I was with a player for FOUR years without suspecting a thing. I did everything imaginable, I lost my virginity to him, everything. I found out about his other girls by going to a club with him, and having him leave me for a different girl every 10 minutes.
So, feeling awful, I decided to get revenge. He felt VERY jealous and it was all fine, up until I started getting called a slut. That was the worst year of my life, there is nothing worst than your own friends calling you 'slag', 'slut', 'whore'. I'm not saying you are obviously but, there is always that risk of the name calling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2006): If a guy is a player and you didn't manage to make a relationship with him last time..chances are it's going to be the same old thing over again and you will get hurt. I was seeing a player and had my suspicions, but found out after I had fallen for him that he had been sleeping with loads of other girls I was devastated. For revenge I slept with other guys and told him everything about it. But the thing is it never made him jealous and want me because he had another 3girls on the go.Its strange because he's not God's gift to women either. In the end I ended up feeling worse, because whether I was good or bad he was never going to be interested in me. I had to cut my ties, he still gets in touch now and again to see if 'I'm up for it',I ignore him. I know that I want a loving relationship with someone who genuinely cares. Not with an immature, arrogant, conceited, ass of a guy. Don't waste your time on him playing his games, use your time to find someone who really cares,loves and respects you.
Mind you, I do have this evil thought often...Luring him into a hotel room handcuffing him naked to the bed, throwing the keys away and leaving him there :)
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reader, ariel  +, writes (30 June 2006):
 Hi,
Most people fall in love a couple of times befor they find the person they want to settle down with.Obviously that phelandering jerkof was not for you(thank your lucky stars).
Why do you want to waste anymore energy on him? People like him are thick skined and don't have a guilty bone in their body.
I don't think playing him will make you feel better ,in fact its going to make you feel worse,if you have to get revenge,do it anonymously, for example set him up with a tranvestite. Hahahaha!!!!!!!
Seriously revenge is never sweet.
xxx
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