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*ngel1976
writes:Please help me, how do I show my ex i have moved on, I want him to want me back , but I would love to turn him down....Ladies any advice...
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reader, SusieQ1970 +, writes (1 August 2007):
Hi there,I've seen your earlier question too about your ex rubbing his new girlfriend in your face. It sounds like we have had similar problems. My ex dumped me 18 months ago and went on to find someone else too and felt that he had to rub her in my face. I asked myself the question why and yeah there is the fact that he wants you to feel bad but then that only suggests to me that he can't let go of the past and still harbours some feelings.My ex proceeded to seemingly dump his new girlfriend to get back with me but then I found out he hadn't finished things properly with her just in case he didn't get what he wanted. It wasn't entirely what I wanted either, I just wanted a decent relationship with him for the sake of our son.But I know how you feel about wanting revenge, I'd love the opportunity to do what you want to as well but then that would be bringing yourself down to his level and we are so much better than that.It's very hard to try and move on when you feel like this, I'm not completely healed either but I'm getting there. Having a child together only compounds this otherwise you could just walk away. If you feel like a more private chat please feel free to message me directly.Good luck to you and just remember you are worth so much more than this.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 This is bad karma. You want to play mind games, and YOU will be the one to suffer in the end. You can never find your own soul mate if you spend time playing mind game with your exs.
-Frank B Kermit
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