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writes:My girlfriend of two and a half months just broke up with me because I'm not good at showing her that I love her. I love her with all my heart, and she loves me. She's so good to me, I really believe she's the greatest girl I've ever met.I have tried to tell her that one of the reasons I'm not good at showing her I love her is because I have been in a relationship before where everything was great and amazing, but it ended abruptly and I was an emotional wreck for months after that. So I have been very cautious to let my emotions show for her, but now this is why she's breaking up with me.I want her back, so how do I show her I love her and care about her? How do I stop protecting myself and just let my emotions flow for her?
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (21 March 2008):
 She doesn't sound the one for you at this stage. She's mad at your previous relationship and has made you suffer by finishing with you. Don't do anything now and see if she comes round. H.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): Don't go chasing. Your best bet is to tell her you love her and that she knows where you are if she changes her mind. Then get on with your life. The more you chase the more you will come over as a needy guy and thats very unappealing to any woman.
Good luck
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reader, starfairy +, writes (20 March 2008):
 She sounds pretty callous, that she breaks up with you because you are simply wary of wearing your heart on your sleeve after being f*cked over by your last girlfriend.
She needs to understand that you need to take it slower than most people, she's obviously never been heartbroken or she would empathise.
To be honest, if she won't be patient and understanding about this, is it really worth pursuing her?
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