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writes: I have lost the spark in my relationship with my partner, How do get it back? how do i feel the passion and love for him i once had?
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reader, Spark  +, writes (2 August 2009):
First go on a special date and listen closely to each other. Talk small conversations and make sure you two don't sit together. Sit across from each other. List some things that you think could regain your relationship. You will have to tell him that you lost the spark. Never give up, respect each other's answers. Make sure you both try harder to be better partners. If he offends you by saying what you could do to be better, stay cool and calm, don't let it get to you. Say okay and try.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2007): Try and keep things interesting. Surprise each other randomly, not just on special occasions. Write little notes for him to find, give him a massage or play a board game (competition is always fun!). Let him know how much he means to you, when he would least expect it. Take turns to plan something special, but don't tell the other person what it is until the last minute. Find a project or hobby that you both enjoy and work on this together. To remind yourselves of when you fell in love, create a scrapbook of photos and memorabilia from places you went. Try new things together. Spice up your sex life, buy some lingere and surprise your partner. Ask your partner what is something he would like to try in the bedroom. Be involved with each other. Listen.
Don't forget about the things you love about each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): every relationship at one point or another looses its spark. its important to get that spark back sooner than later. its all about trying something new. keeping the relationship alive takes time and effort on both parts. try everything new for ex. sex, sex at different places, social activities, little things like public touching when no one is looking, go some where romantic,
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reader, eddie  +, writes (9 October 2006):
 You don't asy how long you've been together. The only way to regain the spark is through effort. MAny things change along the way in a relationship. Sometimes you have to adjust your efforts to reflect the present situation. Sometimes you just have to remember what it was you used to do when you were dating.
It's very easy to become complacent and lose the drive to make your partner feel special when in the begining of a relationship, that is your priority. Everyone like to be noticed and treated as if they were special. Try that. Shower him with attention. MAke him feel valuable to you.
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