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writes:Hi everyone,I haven't written on this site for many many months now. I'm not sure if any of you recall, but back in January-February, my boyfriend and I were having major problems, many involving jealousy and other things. Anyway, unfortunately we broke up in early March. In the end, I'm happy the way that it worked out. Because I'm getting back to myself and I'm getting out and seeing more people now and I'm also leaving to another country shortly for a great opportunity jobwise. So you're thinking, what's the problem then? Well, after the break up it was very difficult because we continued working together which sort of just put more salt in the wound if you know what I mean. That continued until early July. Luckily I haven't had to see him since then and it's been quite good for my emotional state. But then I ran into him on the street yesterday and we were friendly and he asked about my summer, and even suggested that we go for coffee before I leave. Which was very nice of course. But now....all I'm doing is hoping and imagining how it will be if we do go for coffee. I think that it's very unhealthy for me. I woke up this morning, very tired because I was dreaming mostly of him calling me or not calling. It was awful. I don't know how to put this situation out of my mind because I guess I'm still in the process of getting over him. Any suggestions?
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reader, Hillary30 +, writes (9 August 2011):
Hillary30 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi, well it's not a matter of wanting him back because I know that there's a reason that we broke up. The question is more whether I should see him once more before I leave the country. I have lots I want to tell him and I want to find out about him as well and he's been up to. I'm still very attracted to him I know that!! But I know that moving on, to another place, job, new people is what is best for me just not entirely sure whether it's a good idea to see him again before I leave. Please help!
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reader, aebniala  +, writes (9 August 2011):
Just think why you broke up. Are you willing to live with is dark side the rest of the life. Relationship at work does rarely work. Its hard on every one and unconfortable.
You seam to have lots more to look foreward, like new job and surely new romance.
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