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writes:Heya, I hve a question about friendships. I have recently started sixth form and all my friends left to go to different schools for the sixth form. I sort of have a group of friends but it is quite small and two of the members of the group are dating - which sucks! There are a lot of traumas as a result and i feel like the group is breaking up!!! i dont feel like the people in my group value my opinions and although they like me just arnt that interested in me as a friend. Out of school im fine with a nice group of friends an boyfriend - despite them living along way from me so i dont get to see them that often. Im really down about this as i feel really lonely at school without anyone i can really talk to. Any help and advice on how to 'play the social scene' will be appriciated. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (25 February 2007):
 You need to branch out and get involved with new people. Sticking with the same group of friends can be good, they're your closest ones, but once they start to leave you out and get boyfriends and stuff, it sucks. If they want to put their boyfriends and everyone else before you then you need to move on and make new friends, some who will always want you around.
I'm not saying you need to drop these people, they sound like close friends who are just growing up and growing apart. They're not being vindictive to you, I think they just want to do new things and this can sometimes leave the people that mean the most to them behind. You don't need to drama of other peoples' relationships and stuff so get out there and find some new friends.
Good luck
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