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writes:hey guys, i am scared of losing my best friend, i need to trust him and i am trying. I am scared he is going to find a new best friend, how do i over come this? He has told me many times that i am being silly. HELP. We have been arguing a lot recently and these fights start from the stupidest things. Each time he tells me this is the last chance he giving me, does he mean this. And can a best friend of so many years just walk away from you? We cried together, been happy together, been in trouble together, annoyed each other till one of us snapped lol, we been thruough it all. And now i am scared of losing him. I keep snapping at him, how do i stop, and overcome my problem??
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reader, Keira9312  +, writes (25 April 2010):
 When dealing with this kind of problem, it is VITAL to keep your cool. Take some time to talk to him about your wishing to stop snapping on him. If he's known you for long enough, he will understand. But, sometimes friends part, and it may be because you have grown in seperate ways. I have always feared losing my best friend after she became mean and wore gothic makeup to try an attract guys. Again, keep your cool when you talk to him.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 April 2010):
This isn't a friendship, this is a co-dependency. It's a relationship with no make up sex.
Let eachother go and get a boyfriend.
You'll be happier.
Good Luck!! xx
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