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How do I not ruin myself over some boy?

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Question - (30 April 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2013)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

in middle school i liked this boy for over 8 months (still do). i told this boy that i liked him and he said thats digusting. i know your thinking well just dont like him anymore.but i cant stop liking him. the problem is he likes my friend,who also likes him. how do can i not ruin me and my friends relationship when he asks her out without ruining my shelf?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2013):

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thanks for the advice guys.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (30 April 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyou have no control over other people only yourself.

you can't control who you like or who likes you only your actions.

write all your feelings down in a private journal and keep them to yourself. then put it away and don't read it again for 10-15 years. when I read my journals from when I was your age I'm laughing at how serious I was about things that have no impact on life as an adult. I know you don't understand that yet and that's ok... i'm just promising you as you get older it gets easier.

you don't even know he will ask her out... at your age, liking someone does not mean dating and even if they do "date" it will more than likely be short lived. teens are too fickle for the most part to stick with the same person very long.

you can let your friend know you like this guy... but if she doesn't pay heed if he asks her out, well that's her age talking and I would just be as happy for her as you can be...

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