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anonymous
writes:need advice for first time sex. Me and my gf have been going out months and are both ready and have contreception sorted. trouble is shes a very nervous person not just for sex but alot of things. We have done stuff like kissing and hugging etc but once we are doing that i don't know how to move on to sex, what to do or how to approach it kinda thing if you get me. please help.
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reader, Little girl x +, writes (24 February 2007):
 Have you not performed orally on eachother?
I don't think its a good idea, to go straight from kissing to sex.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (21 February 2007):
 Choose the right time to talk to her about taking your relationship a step further. Ask her how she feels about it. If she's at all hesitant then she's not ready. Sex isn't a thing that can be rushed. If you pressure her at all she'll only take a step back. You are both still very young, just have patience and the time will come soon enough, who knows, it might even come from her first!
Eve
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (21 February 2007):
 Well If she gets nervous about it then maybe she's not ready. You should both be relaxed and comfortable with eachother when you're about to have first time sex, it makes it a whole lot better. Talk to her and find out if she is really as ready as she says she is.
If she isn;t then you should give her some more time and wait until she is ready. When you are both ready then you can start of with kissing (foreplay) and then move on to touching. Lots of affectionate behaviour would be nice for her first time.
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reader, x.Helpful.Cupid.x +, writes (21 February 2007):
 Hiya.Aww congrats with your gf, im glad its going well.I guess you should just ask her if she would be comfortable with regular sex to begin with, and if she says shes ok with it, make sure you use protection etc. But if she says shes not ready, dont push her, just wait till shes happy with it.Good luck x
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