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writes:How do I move on?? I met Steven we will call him when I was 17, we have so much in common good and bad I have to admit, bit I have always been in love with him, but we could never make it work as we both had difficult childhoods both our issues kept causing us problems, by the age of 22 we were living together with a baby. But i ended everything after a stupid argument and he moved out, 2 years on and I still miss being with him, trying to move on but he is always on Mind. He won't even reply to text or anything now. I still love him as was my boyfriend/ best friend and now father to my child.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2014): Some things are not meant to be.
You have the need to teach yourself how to ignore what you feel.
It maybe hard but you need to move on.
since you have a child it would be best to focus on how to provide a better future for your kid.
Maybe you just miss the good times you had with him. But its over. You have to let go and you deserve to be happy.
One day mr right will come along,
unexpected. Wait for that day. The one who will never leave through thick and thin.
When that day comes, you will realized and say, thats why he left you because god had been saving the best for you.
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reader, missy_25  +, writes (24 August 2014):
It really is painful but there are hard and sad truths we have to accept and that is even if you liked/loved each other, and you think you are meant to be together, reality is: you're better apart. If you can think things through. Listen to your heart and mind and if you really think you should/shouldnt be together, follow your gut. I chickened out at the last minute fighting for someone I loved bec. Of these insecurities, it took me 3yrs since we last met to get over him, but I've loved him all my life before that and the timing was always wrong between us. In the end, I gave up and guess what. He's happily married to someone else and that's what matters to me. To know that my leaving him was the best, though hardest, I had to make. I thought I'd never love another man after him but I still met someone that made my heart beat after 13yrs.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 August 2014):
 You have a sad story and my heart goes out to you, but it appears that he has moved on and you will need to do the same. There is to much sadness between you both that I am unsure that it would work. I think that you need to accept this and move on. Get out there and meet new people and live your life.
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