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writes:I found this website really helpful, so here it goes:Im 18 years old in college, and all of my relationships i been in are usually the girl making the first move. I been told im really cute and sexy a couple times, but i have low self esteem and i get really shy when it comes to meeting girl. I never actually made a move on a girl before. there is a girl i like in my films class, she sits right next to me, and we talked from time to time, but not really a long conversation.My question is how do i make my first move to let her know i like her, but not make it seem awkward about it.and second, how can a guy tell if a girl really does like you or not. they said girls give you a sign to show that they are interested. but im really slow and never really notice them.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 November 2010):
 well if am honest, most guys dont pick up on girls giving them signs so you are not the only one hear, a lot of girls are shy as well therefore they could like you but dont want to make it obvious. You need to work on your self confidence a bit do things that make you feel good about yourself, what ever interests you do these things maybe pick up a few new hobbies and find something you are good at doing this boosts your ego.
As for the girl well dont go in all guns blazing telling her you like her, its always good to take things slowely and get to know each other better before telling someone this. Therefore next time you are talking to her try and find her interests out, what she likes what she doesnt, maybe find out what movies she likes and then casually ask her would she like to go and see one of them with you. The movies are a great place if you are shy as you dont need to talk through the movie and then it gives you something to talk about afterwards.
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