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How do I make it up to my room mate that I have ignored after he's been kind to me?

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Question - (18 December 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 December 2012)
A female United States age 36-40, *abeen writes:

i have a room mate and i have really ignored him for no reason. he did alot of work for me for my car and stuff and i said i'll cook for him yesterday but then some of my friends came over that night and i offered them to eat with us but he did not join us because he felt like that i made food for them and not him. i want to make it up to him. he must feel so bad. i don't how to fix this. what should i tell him?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 December 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony aunttell him you are sorry you were so selfish and you will make it up to him and then cook for HIM like you promised.

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A male reader, fzald United States +, writes (18 December 2012):

Sounds like you consider your roommate a good friend. Like any relationship, friendships do often take some work to maintain.

Apologize to him and tell him you didn't mean him any harm by inviting others over, but promise to cook for him and just him (and then do it). Even if it's not a "relationship", even friends enjoy that special attention from time to time.

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A female reader, Candid Cally United States +, writes (18 December 2012):

You need to make him food like you promised or pay him for his work.

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