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writes:right heres my problem.theres a girl ( just as in about every other tale )... known her for years.. lately become best friends... and i ask her to be my girlfriend. to my surprise she says yes.the day after i recived an email saying she shouldnt of said yes last night ( this being a few days ago ) and that she loves me to pieces but as a very very best friend. and ive been thinking.. i saw that she was happy when she said yes.. but ive had a thought.. and my best friend ( being a girl she understands how this girl was thinking ) and agrees that she might be scared that if we got together and broke up that we would lose the friendship we had.well that would not be true!!!i love her to pieces.. as in love and love as a best friend... ( yep 2 best friends both girls. )now i really want to give things a go with her but i think shes worried about losing the friendship .How do i make her realise that what ever happens i will always be there for her? How do i tell her that i will be her best friend as well as her boyfriend and if we broke up the fact of me being her best friend would never change and that i will always be there for her?p /please help me.. i can feel the magic.. but i realy do think shez worrid about losing our friend ship if we broke up because this is what has happend to her a number of times before. how do i tell her so she belives me that im not like those tossers that broke her heart and never gave a shit baout her after.. im not like that.. some on please help me... please... any anwsers will be apreciated... thanks people.
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reader, Farris +, writes (15 May 2007):
 I think all you can really do for now is to keep being this really great friend for her. I know it's hard, but as you made quite clear in your question, you really care about this girl.
Right now, she feels like it wouldn't be a good idea to get together, in case things go sour and the friendship is ruined, and I'm afraid there's no easy cure to make her change her mind.
Maybe you could try to convince her to let you take her on one date; so she can see what it would feel like to have you as her boyfriend. You would have to understand her decision though, if she still thinks it's better to stay just friends. The best thing to do is to just keep being the great friend you are to her.
Carry on caring about this girl and if it was really meant to be, it will happen.
Good luck & best wishes.
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