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writes: I'm a 39 year old woman who has been single for a good few years but always have my share of dates. It is quite rare for me to really like someone because I suppose I have quite unusual taste. I am looking first and foremost for a good person and due to past experiences I would also quite like someone with a brain, a social conscience and fulfilling job. I have been doing a temporary job lately and my boss fits the above criteria with the added bonus that I find him very attractive. He is too professional, respectful and thoughtful to even hint at any attraction in this setting but I have a feeling he is attracted to me because of a few subtle hints. I am 99% sure he is single and at around 42 he is the perfect age for me. My question is, considering the fact that I am leaving in the next few weeks and professionalism will no longer be an issue, how do I make it known that I am interested in him without embarrassing us both and keeping it private? I have thought about inviting him out to my leaving drink but don't think this will work because it would be too public. I have also thought about e-mailing him but this would be on his work e-mail and anyone could read it. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, Hurt4life  +, writes (20 May 2008):
 What time of job u do? How do u know how is single at 42? read my question, maybe u find something similar, i got with my boss as well, i hope u don't work in a supermarket, like i used too....Don't know what to really tell u, but i am sure he might not be single, first get to know him more, out the job, no business let see how thing work, and if u think he is the right guy, let him know, be careful, u don't need no drama, things my look in one way, but they might be totally different, as u know man got games...good luck, write back to me
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reader, Dreaming  +, writes (20 May 2008):
You could always give him your number and say if there are any questions about anything you've done and he needs to reach you to feel free to call you!
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