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writes:HI!! How do you end a marriage that never should have happened in the first place? Thats the problem that I have. When I first met him, we were just getting out of relationships. He always talked about what "J" did to him, and at the same time, told me he didnt want to hear about my past one. I had to change alot about myself for him because "I wont put up with it." He wouldnt tell me he had feelings for me for over a year, wouldnt try to work on problems we had, and I stayed. Partly because I loved his family and partly because I loved him. Then we got married, I think he asked me because his folks kind of pushed it. I hoped he would change, and he wouldnt. He ignores me, and pretends that everything is fine. Its not fine! So, I went home to my family, and now he kind of tries, but I lost my feelings for him. Now I want to run as fast as I can, but Im weak when he askes me to stay. Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, and god bless you too! I was and yes maybe I will talk to one.
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reader, Annalisa  +, writes (13 February 2008):
 Did you get married in church? If yes, you can talk to a priest and apply for an annullement, on the basis that you got married for all the wrong reasons.
I hope there are no children to suffer the consequences, but you should either work things out or make a clean break. Doing this legally will show you mean it and just tell him your marriage was a mistake that should never have happened and you want to stop wasting your time.
Getting some spiritual advice will help you tread on the right path and deal with the break up less bitterly!
God bless and good luck!
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reader, maria14r +, writes (13 February 2008):
oh i have the same problem. except he shows me that he wants me when i kick him out. i also want to run as fast as i can. i also want to get away and leave him but when it comes to him asking me to stay i get weak. we shouldnt be like that. if we want to be alone then we should. if we dont think about our happiness then who will. i know they wont. he sees me that i'm always mad depressed and upset and he knows why but he dont want to leave me. you should do what makes you happy. leave him. thats what i'm gunna do.
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