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female
reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): I am going through the same thing. One day he's pissy the next he's fine. I have asked him before if he is cheating but he says no. Trust your gut and fish around. Until you find hard evidence don't accuse.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): You know if a mans cheating on you if you always have to say i love you and if he dont even say he misses you wehn you are a part and he int as sexual as he use to be from my own exsperiance my boyfriends cheated on me with his ex's he wouldent let me even see his phone or add me to his my space or even look at it after we had sex a few times it was like the i love you's left and the i miss you's left also and exspecially his sexual attitude and he dont seem like he cares so if you can relate than i hope i had helped you ny girls with questions feel free to email me MOD NOTE: Personal email deleted.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007): Usually it's when you start to ask yourself that question.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2007): well if your boyfriend is cheating on ask him why and what did you ever do to hurt him
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007): You ask if serious enuff to continue.This is most important - wot do u want from relationship.it sounds as tho u doubt ur own feelings - in which case the other matter is less important.If u really love him and want a long term future then it depends wot he wants.Again if not the same as u - pointless (unless u just havin fun - which is ok if u happy with that) If u both want serious future 2gether and only then does the rst become relevant.
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male
reader, DKR  +, writes (8 May 2007):
 personally i would say that there is no sure fire way of knowing for sure. It sounds asif you don't trust him though. A little back-ground information would be helpful. Unless you want to hire a private detective i wouldn't challanged him untill you have proof.
I do believe this is a trust issue and unless the two of you sit down and talk bout it, the reltionship may not last.
Ask him honestley if he is playing away from home, see what ansewer you get. I he says that he isn't, you have to take his word for it untill he gives you just-cause to doubt him
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