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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my close friend are both bi. We are pretending to date but have done stuff with each other in the past. I like her more than friends and feel that she feels the same. By the way she acts and flirts with me. She has told me before that she would date me but she fears it being awkward bc we are close friends. How do i approach her? And know for sure that she likes me more than friends?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2012): Be open about your feelings, don't keep it to yourself and somehow torture yourself with "what ifs". Tell her that you've been thinking about her a lot lately and that you'd like to be more than a close friend to her. Don't forget to ask her about how happy she is when you're together and if she feels the relationship could be taken to a new level, even if there is a risk for your friendship, but insist on the fact that it is a safe one because you'll be taking things one step at a time and respecting each other's space. If you find it too difficult to speak to her directly, you can text her, email her, write her a letter (even though it sounds old-fashioned), or send her a song, to tell her how you feel. Good luck!
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