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writes:When we have sex, I find that it takes a long time to climax and I am not always sure that I have done so.I continue thrusting for at least twenty minutes. Is there any way of trying to improve trying to climax during sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the comments. They were useful.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (4 May 2011):
 If you don't know you've climaxed, chances are you haven't.
Did you in your youth? Do you remember what sex was like in your youth? Were you a late starter? Are you shy?
Are you afraid of your fantasies? Do you have any?
Lets start with the past and your youth and then carry it through to the present and then look at medical reasons.
Past that, hats off, you man you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2011): Since when is taking your time and having stamina a bad thing? If you are enjoying all 20 minutes, I don't see the problem. Seriously...there are some women who would consider your problem an asset.
If you tire or get bored, I would switch it up a bit. Alternate between oral and penetrative sex. Take turns. That way you get lots of different stimulation and it can help strengthen the orgasm.
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reader, Gherkinsaregrim  +, writes (4 May 2011):
Twenty mins isn't that long... Unless your not enjoying yourself.Are you sort of having really samey sex?If you are then it sounds like you might wanna try spice stuff up and act out some fantasies you have so you can try a more intense sexual experience if you don't happen to have already.Have you throughout about askin your wife to try level excersises to tighten her vagina?
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