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*ecky27
writes:Hi,I really need some advice. I am 27 and have never been in a serious relationship although have had many experiences, nothing had ever lasted. Last summer i had an affair with a married man which ended in Feb - this left me in a complete state and he really hurt me. I know in many ways i could only really blame myself. I have recently starting seeing a genuinely amazing guy who is completely right for me. I am for some reason totally petrified. I cant work out why he wants to be with me and how i should be with him. I have told him i want to take things slowly and he is fine with that. This sound crazy but i dont know how to have a relationship that doesnt end in a drunken fumble and maybe see you around. This was previously all i really wanted but clearly i am growing up and now acting like a teenager. Please help...........
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): You need to have trust and be trustworthy if you want to make this relationship work I agree with taking things slowly, get to know each other and have alot of fun. Why can you not believe he wants to be with you, he is so you must have something he likes, be yourself and let things happen as it happens if it does not work out it was not ment to be.
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reader, Hadouken! +, writes (8 July 2008):
 It's normal to be scared. You don't want this guy to be like all the rest, you want him to be commited to you alone, but because of your past experience you don't see how he can be. You're doing the right thing by taking it slow, just don't rush into anything and remember what it's like to be in love again. You don't have to do anything you don't want to, so don't make him rush you if you're not ready. Relax and enjoy the greatest experience ever.
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