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*abygirl99
writes:my son's father and I haven't been together in four years. We have always been off and on with relations. Recently he got a girlfriend and I think they are serious ! I think she is living there if you ask me she is always under him always over there when you go in his place her "things" are all over. I ask him was she staying here and of course he told me no. We have a 4 year old son together and it does affect me having another women around my son but I don't say anything b/c we are not together. His a great father but I do get tab bit jealous of seeing her @ times ! Sometimes my son asks for her ! What do I do in a sisuation like this ? Me and her have never cross words I speak and keep going but it makes me upset b/c they go places like a family like she's the "mom". So recenty I told him we couldn't have relations anymore b/c he can't be with the both of us ! So I guest he choose her ! Burns me up how men do ! How do I cope with her being there
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): I wish i could answer this for you, but i am looking for a similar answer. I have fallen in love with my son's father, we are not together, he has not met anyone else serious yet i don't think, and we still have "relations". I make all the effort for him to see his son as he lives abroad and he shows me no grattitude or respect, he just has his cake, eats it and totally doesn't realise how good and easy he has it. I know i need to get a grip but it's killing me inside, and i can't show or tell how i'm feeling as i don't want things to get difficult or ackward for our sons sake. I feel so trapped wthin my own my mind and feelings and it is breaking me. I hope you find an answer and help to your situation, sorry i was no help, just nice to air my feelings with soemone who feels similar. Good luck. x
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reader, Entirely Unique  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 If this is just about jealousy then you have to find a way to deal with it and let go.
If this is truely about having someone else thrown into your sons life too soon into your ex's relationship then you have a right to discuss this with him and find a way for him to see his son on his own without the girlfriend around for now.
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