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How do I handle this attention?

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Question - (5 February 2017) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2017)
A male United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

There is somebody at school who keeps staring at me. It's become a daily thing now, and even my frieends have noticed it happening. Furthermore, I have realised that whenever somebody mentions my name to her she often blushes. This has been happening for almost a year now. Halp.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (7 February 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntThe question is do you like this girl? If you do then talk to her, get to know her and become her friend. She is shy around you as she has a crush on you. Be careful not to hurt her.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (5 February 2017):

Honeypie agony auntSounds like the girl has a crush on you and there really isn't much you can do about that. IF you aren't interested in HER, I'd just ignore it. Don't be mean about it just ignore it. Think about it, HOW would you feel if you had a crush on a girl who JUST didn't care for you? Who felt it was AWKWARD that you like her? So be gentle.

If your friends bring the subject up, just shrug and say you have no idea and isn't interested in it.

Eventually, she will crush on someone else.

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2017):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntI'd go talk to her. Find out if she wants to talk and is too nervous or ask her to stop staring, if she reacts in a mean way. Do it alone, but in view of others, in case she's a bully.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2017):

She appears to have a crush on you.

So, go easy.

A girl's heart is her most treasured and most fragile possession.

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom + , writes (5 February 2017):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntShe's got a crush on you. Relax and enjoy the attention. At your age it is unlikely to come to anything more than glances from a distance.

Unless, of course, you like her, then you could always start saying hi to her and see if she responds at all.

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